Wednesday, August 10, 2011

something to think about


someone said something to me recently that has been on my mind a lot lately.

"happiness is a choice," they said.

now this is not a new concept to me. i've heard it before. but for some reason this time i heard it it changed me a little bit inside.

there are some who do not believe happiness is a choice. that something out of our control can make us sad and unhappy. most things in my life are out of my control. and sometimes i feel i have a lot to be unhappy about. but if i believe that something or someone can make me unhappy then i am powerless to whatever is going on around me.

but oh no, my friend. this is not so. even though most of the time i cannot change the circumstances around me i have the power to change how i feel. i can choose. this is a precious gift that i believe is given to us. such a blessing.


isabelle s happy 99.9% of the time.

my children teach me by example everyday.

3 comments:

sleepless said...

You are ABSOLUTELY right. Thanks for reminding us.

Tori Orgill said...

thank you for that reminder. i think i am going to make that my new mantra. and you're right Isabelle is happy 99.999999% of the time. just the thought of her smile makes me smile!! i love you friend. thanks for helping me be a better me!

Melissa said...

Isabelle is beautiful! How I miss them.